Days 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, and 27: Too Busy Saying Yes!

The last week has been INCREDIBLY busy with all sorts of new adventures! So much so, that I have not had the chance to blog about any of my ‘Say Yes’ happenings. Once again, I find myself playing catch up. Instead of chronicling all of my adventures this week with detail, I am choosing to focus on one. Days 22-26 included many experience that took me out of my comfort zone or out of my routine including a choir concert, meeting a colleague for coffee, making new recipes and seeing old friends, trying new breweries, playing new games, and having dinner with students. Each of those experiences were wonderful, but the highlight had to be Day 27.

Yesterday, I went to the Denver Actors Fund Benefit Concert featuring local performers and performers who are from Denver but have gone on to have successful careers on Broadway or elsewhere. The DAF provides monetary gifts to actors and technicians who are struggling with medical needs. They have given over $86,000 as gifts in their short 4 year existence. This organization is truly one of my favorites in Colorado.

The concert last night was terrific and all of the performers brought their A-Game to this wonderful concert. Some highlights included a rousing disco number sung by the First Lady of Denver, Four Seasons hits performed by the always entertaining Jerseys, and performances from Broadway stars Mara Davi, Beth Malone, and Annaleigh Ashford.

While the concert was wonderful, that was not my “Say Yes” moment. My friend Kayleigh and I stayed for the VIP Reception after the concert. The concert did not end till 10:30, and it was a school night, but I am so glad I stayed. I had the chance to catch up with some old Academy of Theatre Arts friends (many of whom I had not seen in 15-20 years) and got to hob-knob with the theatre community of Denver. It was truly inspiring to see the community come together for a great cause. I will definitely be at DAF events in the future!

 

 

 

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Days 18, 19, 20, and 21: Yikes, I need to Catch Up

Wow! So this blogging thing totally got away from me! I was busy doing so many new “Say Yes” adventures, that I forgot to blog! Here’s a short recap of my past weekend.

Day 18: Recital time! One of my best friends from grad school had her Master’s Voice Recital. While I now live an hour and a half away, it was incredibly important to me that I did. Allison was wonderful, and her program was beautiful! Even though I’m around music all the time, I never get to just sit back and enjoy someone’s performance. It was so nice to take a moment to appreciate really good music.

Day 19: Game night! During my stay in Boulder, my friend Vicki took me to a game night with some of her friends. Though I am often quiet around new groups of people who know each other well, I found myself quite at ease. I was introduced to new people (including some who live in Colorado Springs!), and I was introduced to new games! I now have the Head’s Up App downloaded on my phone. For anyone who likes guessing games, such as Pyramid or Password, this one’s for you!

Day 20: A Spot of Tea. I have explored many of the hipster coffee places in Colorado Springs, and I really enjoy the minimalist atmosphere of these locations. However, none of these coffee shops are really cozy. Yesterday, I met a friend at Montague’s Parlour, an adorable tea parlour just south of Downtown Colorado Springs. This could be my new favorite place. China plates and comfy arm chairs adorn this cozy and inviting establishment. There’s a comforting air about the parlor, as if patrons are sitting in the living room of a Victorian home. Their tea was lovely, and the cases of pastries were enticing. I will definitely be returning (especially when I’m eating sugar again 🙂 ).

Day 21: Senior Luncheon. As the end of the school year is quickly approaching, my calendar has filled up with various activities and celebration that require a choir performance. Today marked the start of these occasions with the senior luncheon. As I walked in the ballroom of the Antler’s Hotel, I was flooded with flashbacks from my senior luncheon 9 years ago. It was exciting to see all of the seniors dressed up, and the memory boards they had put together were adorable. It was nice to have an afternoon off campus and honor the students I work with.

Days 15, 16, and 17: Getting Lost in a Book

I love to read. Unfortunately, my schedule does not always provide me the time (or energy) to spend hours getting lost in a book. Recently, I have been spending a lot of time at the local library. On Tuesday, I went to the library to pick up some books on my ever-expanding reading list.  I love the Pikes Peak Library District. The libraries are cozy, inviting, and have a wealth of reading material. Perfect for a bookworm like me. Because of the vast selection, I’m finally making a dent in my never-ending reading list. On my last trip to the library, I picked up House of Silk by Anthony Horowitz, a Sherlock Holmes novel, and The Paris Wife by Paula McLain, which has been on my list for ages. I never make time to go to the library mid-week, so it felt especially luxurious and out of the ordinary to go on a Tuesday.

On Wednesday, I went to my new favorite hipster coffee shop in Colorado Springs for a cup of coffee and a place to read. Loyal Coffee is the epitome of a hipster beanery, with its artisan coffee, fancy toast options, minimalist decor, and succulents. Instead of curling up on my couch and reading, I decided to venture out in public. It’s nice to have a change of location and feel a sense of camaraderie with other people, even if it’s while silently reading a book. Places like Loyal Coffee have a nice sense community. I may do my reading there more often.

Today, I decided to join a book club. A co-worker of mine and I were talking about books we’ve read and how we are both trying to read more. She mentioned that she’s in a book club, and she invited me to join. I’m so excited to meet new people this way and to read books I might otherwise pass over!

Day 14: No Sweets

Half-way through challenge 1, and I’ve decided to make it harder on myself. I am adding another challenge in the middle of this one.

When I started this venture, I asked a good friend of mine what my project should be. She joked, “Whole 30.” She was about to start this plan in order to figure out some allergies, and joked that I should try this with her. After doing some research, I realized that the Whole30 plan is not for me, but I could give up some foods in solidarity. Plus, it would be good to focus on eating more whole foods and less processed sugars. So, I have decided to give up sweets and processed food for the next 30 days. I have carefully planned a set of meals, and I am excited by the challenge. My first day had several temptations, but I avoided them well! I’m not giving up all of my vices, but I think this is a good start!

 

 

 

Challenge 1: Days 11, 12, and 13: A Workshop, A Trip to the Zoo, and Games

Hello! It’s been an active few days, and while I have continued with my “Say Yes” challenge, I have not had time to blog about it. So, I’m going to get caught up now.

Day 11: A Workshop With a Mentor

Last summer when I was newly hired, I had coffee with a high school choir director of mine to ask him tips and tricks as I navigate my new job. He mentioned that he does clinics for the choirs of former students, and he asked if I’d be interested. Well, I quickly said “Yes!” We scheduled a date far in advance, and he finally came to work with my groups on Friday.  Though I was incredibly nervous, I can easily say that having Mr. E come and work with my students was one of my most exciting days I’ve had all year. It was wonderful to see my students get the same joy from hearing him talk excitedly about choral music, and it was completely rewarding to have him complement my groups on their music making. Many of the tricks I use come from his class, so it meant a lot to me to show him what I learned. While my students grew a lot from working with him, I may have learned even more by being on the director side of the rehearsal. I ended that day re-energized and excited to finish out the year, complete with new strategies and tools. I am so glad I have such an incredible mentor and colleague.

Day 12: A Trip to the Denver Zoo

My brothers came to visit this weekend! It has been almost a year since my whole family of 5 has been together, and the stars aligned that we all could be together this weekend. Because of this, my parents planned a fun weekend, jam-packed with family activities, including a trip to the zoo. If you haven’t been to the Denver Zoo, it is one of the best zoos I have ever been to. It is well laid out, interactive, and diverse. Often, visitors can see animals active in all of the exhibits, and Saturday was no exception. Recently, the zoo has added a few animals to its number – a baby giraffe and a baby gorilla. The baby giraffe was lovably awkward and adorable, but it was the baby gorilla that stole my heart. Her tiny frame was dwarfed by the full grown gorillas in the habitat, but she actively played and followed his parents. It was adorable to see her attach to her mother for a ride across the floor or just help getting up. I could have easily watched her all day.

Day 13: One of the Weirdest Card Game I have Ever Played

I love card games of any kind. Hearts, Gin, Spades, Poker, Spit, Uno, Cards Against Humanity – you name it. I become incredibly competitive, especially when there are absolutely no stakes whatsoever. I have been introduced to some odd and complicated games over the years, but Sushi-Go! has to be one of the strangest, but most fun (and strategic) games I have played. Sushi-Go! was introduced to my by a friend at an Easter gathering tonight. The goal is to collect the most points in a round by collecting cards and passing along others. The cards, which all feature different types of smiling sushi, have different point values at the bottom or ways to win points, so players need to pay attention to how they are choosing cards. After several rounds of complete and utter failure, my friends and I finally understood how to play this game, and it was a blast. It was exactly what I needed heading into a long week at school.

 

Days 9 and 10: Political Action

Until recently, I’ve viewed politics as something to study, read about, and complain about. Not something that I actively participated in (aside from voting every year…okay every other year). Despite that fact that I majored in political theory, I’ve not been super politically active. I was not sure how to get involved, who to contact, or what to say.

That all changed recently.

Yesterday and today, my “Say Yes” action has been contributing to the political process. Neither of my actions have been super grand, but I have stepped out of my comfort zone to participate in the political process.

Yesterday, I signed up for the Colorado Springs Feminist group. I have been lurking on their meet-up site for a while, but I had yet to become a member. I often think, “Oh, but I never have time to go to anything.” Well I decided it was important for me to become a member and make time to go. So, I added my name to their Meetup list and Facebook group. It’s nice to know there’s a community of like-minded people around me. One of these days, my “Say Yes” action will be going to an event!

Today, I made 5 Calls to my representatives or to committees in Congress. As mentioned before, I hate talking on the phone. I have avoided calling Congress for so long because I would have to speak to someone and come up with something intelligent to say. Thankfully…there’s an app for that. Apps like 5 Calls or Daily Action provide you names of your representatives, give you the phone numbers, and give you a script to follow based on an item in which you are interested. Today, I made 5 calls (and, mercifully, left 5 voice mails) about causes that are important to me. I had easy talking points, and I felt myself becoming more confident as the calls progressed. While this isn’t a ground-breaking form of action, I feel accomplished, and I know I had done my part.

These are small actions, but they make a difference. With consistent effort and practice, I plan on becoming more active and more vocal. There are easy ways to become involved in the democratic process, and I feel lucky that I have the ability to act.

Challenge 1, Days 7 and 8: Celebrations

On a Monday or Tuesday night, I normally love curl up in bed and watch Chopped or read a book. Right now, I’m reading Amy Schumer’s book (it’s fantastic – if you haven’t read it, pick it up now). As this month’s challenge would have it, however, I need to say ‘Yes’ to something out of the ordinary every day. So, this Monday and Tuesday, I said yes to two different celebrations.

Monday marked the first night of Passover. While I do observe Passover every year, I was not sure I would be able to make it to my family’s celebration because I live about an hour away, and it was a school night. That said, I decided it was important to me, so I RSVP’d with an emphatic “Yes!” I am so glad I did not miss this family celebration. My uncle is an incredibly creative person, and he likes to spice up our traditional seder every year. This year was no exception. So, instead of assigning reading roles like normal, all participants at this year’s Passover seder had a Bingo-board, complete with Passover’s greatest hits (I never thought I’d yell ‘Bingo’ after the word ‘boils’ was called, but there’s a first time for everything). My family and I observed the holiday while laughing the night away, which is just what I needed after a long Monday at school.

Today (Tuesday), I went out after school to celebrate the birthday of a good friend and co-worker. Ordinarily, Tuesdays are reserved for cooking, yoga, and TV, but I jumped at the invitation to celebrate. It was nice to break up the week, especially after a long day of proctoring the SAT, and celebrate a good friend who has become such an important part of my support circle in Colorado Springs. I still did yoga and watched TV (the cooking will have to wait till tomorrow), but it was important for me to be social first.

I may return to my den tomorrow and Thursday, but I’m glad that I started the week with these festivities!

Challenge 1, Day 7: Tending to the Garden

I have a terrible track record with plants. I once bought a basil plant. I would walk by it and think, “I should water that,” and then I would keep walking. Needless to say the plant did not last. Recently, a co-worker gave me a plant to look after, and I have asked my 14 year-old TA to monitor the plant because she is far better with it and more responsible than I am. I am a green thumb failure.

That said, I have recently discovered the therapeutic activity of weeding. I live in a cute townhouse with a small yard, which attracts its fair share of unwelcome plants. Now that spring has finally sprung in Colorado, dandelions and other deceptive greens have sprouted and taken over our yard. On this temperate spring day, it seemed like a perfect time to remove some unwanted lawn inhabitants. I was provided with an incredible sense of catharsis thanks to yanking things out of the ground and throwing them away. This was especially true if the root was particularly stubborn. I like to think of this as some sort of metaphor for my life. Some unwanted stress has taken root, but I have the ability to dig it up and throw it away. Some stress might prove more challenging to get rid of, and I might decide to hack at it a little bit and decide to come back to it again when I feel stronger. Other obstacles are easier to knock away and get rid of, purging them from my life.

When I ended my short weeding afternoon, there was plenty more to tackle another day, but I felt a sense of accomplishment and calm.

Challenge 1, Days 5 and 6: New Friends!

I think anyone can agree that moving to a new city is challenging. Finding a place to live, getting settled in a job, and finding a support system all take time. When I moved to Colorado Springs, I was very fortunate in that I found a place to live with great people incredibly quickly thanks to mutual friends. Though my roommates and I are on totally different schedules and I never see them, they are wonderful people and made my transition to a new city that much easier.

At work, I made an effort to ingratiate myself in the school community. I met people from different departments in order to establish a network at my work place. Through various happy hours, trivia nights, and school events, I have become great friends with numerous co-workers. This network at school has been invaluable to me as I transitioned from Boulder to the Springs.

Outside of school, it took a little longer for me to feel comfortable putting myself out there and meeting new people. This was partially because of my crazy work schedule, but my desire to be an introvert and reenergize on weekends kept me from really reaching out. As discussed before, I am not the most comfortable showing up to things on my own when I do not know anyone, and I tend to wait for an invitation. One such invitation came early January when my roommate introduced me to a bunch of her friends through a Bachelor viewing party. I haven’t been an avid Bachelor fan in the past, but I quickly jumped at the opportunity as a way to meet new people. This quickly became one of the best decisions I have made as I met wonderful women who have welcomed me with open arms.

This month’s challenge is not just about pushing myself out of my comfort zone or out of my routine, but about saying yes to opportunities. This weekend, I was invited to a 1920’s party at Bristol Brewing and then a Bingo night with my new friends. I jumped at the chance to say yes to both of these opportunities.

The 1920s party was a blast, complete with costumes, old-timey music, photo booths, and old cars. It was wonderful to laugh the night away with good people and meet more people in the process! And, while I had terrible luck at Bingo, it was great to learn more about the people around me and discover a fun Saturday night activity.

I am so excited to continue these friendships (both in school and out) as I settle into Colorado Springs.

Challenge 1, Day 4: A Jazzy Outing

I firmly believe I have the best job in the world. I teach high school choir, and every day, I am inspired by my students and their desire to grow as learners, as musicians, and as people.

Today was no exception. It has been a goal of mine to get my jazz choir to sing solos at a coffee shop. Not only do I think jazz and coffee go wonderfully together, I think it’s a great way to introduce the school music program to the greater community and to give students a chance to perform solos in a relaxed atmosphere. After planning all year, we finally had our coffee shop performance today. This was the first time I have planned a concert like this on my own, so I had some pre-performance jitters… Despite some slight hiccups (for example, a rather large miscommunication about the time of the performance), the event was great! The group sang several of our ‘greatest hits’ (pieces we’ve been working on since August that the kids ask to perform whenever they get the chance), and the soloists were poised and prepared.

While I definitely have ways to improve the concert for next year, I am incredibly proud of how this first concert went. I learned to trust that I can pull off a big event and provide students with a wonderful learning opportunity.